Posted: May 19, 2013 in Opinion
I struggle with this all the time. I am extremely prudish, yet there is an exhibitionist side in me that comes out every so often. I always crave to show myself off, but I’m never sure what is appropriate or inappropriate.
It’s too subjective. It also varies depending on geographic location, time of day, backgrounds, it’s too much. So I get my moods.
I try to set one rule. I will not show off any part of me that a bathing suit covers. That includes ass, genitalia, cum, or anything of that sort.
I know people will have a problem with this. If you do, please explain your double standard.
Posted: May 14, 2013 in TMI Tuesday
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1. Answer Yes or No:
I Regret My First Kiss — YES because I knew she wouldn’t be into it the way I was.
I Miss My First Love — NO
I Married My First Love — NO
I Loved Someone That Didn’t Love Me — NO. Lust on the other hand though…
2. Do you consider yourself monogamous or polyamorous or some other category which you will explain or define for us now?
I am monogamous out of respect. I wouldn’t feel right any other way.
3. Your partner is in the mood for sex and you are tired – what do you do?
Compromise. If we have to wait, I’ll make it something worth waiting for.
4. Does your partner mind if you masturbate, in bed, when they are there?
Depends on the situation. Generally it will happen as long as there is a great deal of foreplay or role playing leading up to it. Otherwise, doubtful.
5. Describe your typical sexual romp:
I don’t like to be predictable. I keep it interesting.
Bonus: What was your best ever masturbation experience. Why was it the best? Describe.
When I was in college, I was on the phone with my best friend of the opposite sex. We were talking about anything and everything all night long. The sun was coming up, and we were still talking. We kept trying to hide our sexiness, but eventually we gave in and had phone sex. It was amazing because it was completely unexpected, and it was our first time ever doing something like that. I’ll never forget it.
1. My favorite place to masturbate is ________ ?
2. Have you ever masturbated in public? What were the circumstances?
I was at a party in college with about 30 or 40 of my buddies. We may have had a few too many adult beverages, and most people at the party just got silly and a bit horny. Several of the girls had undressed me down to my tighty whities (gross, I know). So when my friend dropped me off back at my house, I told her I wanted to “finish the job” right there in the passenger seat of the car. She was okay with it, too. In retrospect, I probably should have waited until I got home.
3. Do you like mutual masturbation? Why?
I love it when you’re in the early sexual stages of a relationship. It’s safe, fun, and really helps you understand your partner.
4. When was the last time you masturbated?
Two nights ago.
5. Have you ever masturbated on camera?
6. Do you like to watch people masturbate?
Yes. It makes me want to follow suit, and do it myself (horny).
Bonus: Have you filmed yourself masturbating? Care to share that film via a link?
Yes. The video is long gone, and I wouldn’t have any interest in making it public if I did still have it. Sorry!